Archive for February, 2008

Hearing Problem

Monday, February 4th, 2008

I was putting together tea and a snack for our family, when Drake called out, “Mom, I want toast with butter and honey.”

Since I’m trying to discourage “I want” and encourage asking politely, I didn’t answer immediately.

“MOM! I want toast with butter and honey! I want toast with butter and honey!”

Pause, as he waited for a response that didn’t come.

“MOM! DO YOU HEAR ME?”

My husband G. Grod and I started to laugh. I’m sure half the block heard him, at that volume.

“Yes, Drake.” I said. “I heard you before, but I didn’t hear you asking nicely.”

Drake’s voice dropped to a normal level. “Oh. PLEASE can I have toast with butter and honey?”

“Yes, dear, it’s coming.”

But by that time, 2yo Guppy started a refrain. “Buddah an’ hunny! Buddah an’ hunny!”

I looked at G. Grod. We sighed in tandem.

Brace Yourself: Six More Weeks

Monday, February 4th, 2008

The groundhog saw his shadow, so we’re in for six more weeks of what feels like the longest, coldest, darkest winter ever. To bolster my flagging spirits, I have a new bulb in my sun box, a new journal to write in, and a new edition of a favorite book to re-read.

The suicide-awareness billboards are everywhere in the Twin Cities. Take care of yourself. If you’re feeling blue, check out an online screening test like the one from NYU Medical Center, and contact your health care provider if you’re worried. And if you’re worried about someone else, say so, or ask if you can help.

Minnesota Caucus 2008-Super Tuesday

Monday, February 4th, 2008

Minnesota has moved its Republican and Democratic caucuses up from March to “Super Tuesday” February 5, 2008. The March date of previous years meant the caucuses had little impact to the nation.

Go to CaucusFinder for your precinct and caucus location so you can participate in the democratic process, no matter what party you choose.

From MPR, “How to participate in Minnesota’s precinct caucuses”:

DEMOCRATS:

The Democratic-Farmer-Labor Party’s presidential preference ballot is binding on 72 yet-to-be-chosen delegates to the Democratic National Convention, as long as the candidate clears a 15 percent threshold in one of the state’s eight congressional districts. Minnesota’s 16 superdelegates are not bound by the vote.

Votes for president are accepted between 6:30 p.m. and 8 p.m. at more than 4,000 DFL precinct caucuses. Caucus-goers can make presidential picks without sticking around to elect officers, choose delegates to county and Senate district conventions or shape the party’s platform.

REPUBLICANS:

The GOP’s nonbinding presidential straw poll does not commit the state’s 41 delegates to the Republican National Convention. Caucus-goers can cast their votes when more than 4,000 GOP caucuses begin at 7 p.m.

By participating in precinct caucuses, supporters of presidential candidates can position themselves to eventually become delegates to the national convention and vote for their contender.

INDEPENDENCE PARTY:

The Independence Party of Minnesota holds more than 70 caucuses starting at 7 p.m., plus an online virtual caucus that runs for the next month at its Web site: http://www.mnip.org/.

Eleanor Roosevelt, Vol. 1: 1884-1933 by Blanche Wiesen Cook

Sunday, February 3rd, 2008

Cook’s Eleanor Roosevelt, a selection of my book group, is not one I would have picked up on my own. I’m glad to have read it, though, especially in the current political season. Eminently readable, ER the book carefully documents Roosevelt’s life up till FDR was elected president. It ends with a huge list of notes and sources; only a few notes interrupt the text.

ER the person is a fascinating companion for the 500+ pages. Born into an aristocratic family plagued by alcoholism and depression, she goes on to become one of the most influential women in politics, though her work was frequently behind the scenes. She was a tireless and diplomatic supporter of both her husband and of women’s causes, even when these sometimes (and they often did) diverged. It was a good reminder that many of the things we take for granted–forty-hour work weeks, 8-hour workdays, maternity healthcare and leave, among many other things–were things other women worked to bring into law.

Much that’s been written on the lives of ER and FDR focuses on their extramarital relationships. I found that Cooke carefully detailed the evidence for these, while also showing that the two had a supportive, loving marriage in other ways, and one that enabled each of them to go on to significant personal success and accomplishment. Their marriage, like ER as a person, was complicated.

The narrative sometimes jumped around in time, and Cooke so often listed the many upper-class companions of the Roosevelt’s lives that I skimmed them. Further, family trees or an index of people along with their nicknames would have been very helpful. Many people had more than one nickname; it was hard to follow, and I wished also for some explanation of where the panoply of alternate names came from. But the book overall was so thorough and so engaging, like its subject, that these are minor complaints about a work I enjoyed and learned from.