Instant comment gratification? Sorry, not here

November 29th, 2004

One of my many pet peeves is people who ask stupid questions at author readings. I feel so bad for authors when they are asked “Where do you get your ideas?” I like Jennifer Weiner’s response, “Target.”

While all authors I have ever seen have graciously answered this question, I’m not sure that I would be able to be so polite. So when I have my “when I get my book published and am doing readings and someone actually comes to them” fantasy rolling in my head, I think it would be a good thing if questions were submitted in advance, so I could weed out the “Where do you get your idea?”s and all the questions that aren’t really questions but just a way for the inquirer to sound erudite in front of a crowd. In real life, though, I haven’t even put together a good submission package for my book, so I think I can say with certainty that any author readings on my part are a long way off.

Censoring comments, though, is happening right here, right now, because as soon as we put this site up, my comments feature got spammed with poker solicitations. So I have to approve comments before they get posted. This actually is far more like abashed agony then my authorial fantasy. I don’t get tons of comments, and I’m thrilled by each one, since they affirm that people are actually reading this. So believe you me, readers, I don’t want to make commenting harder. But I did want to let you know why there is a delay in seeing your comment posted.

Blame the poker spammers. I didn’t want it to come to this.

One life, one blog

November 28th, 2004

Welcome to the new address of Girl Detective. Two and a half years ago, I started writing as Girl Detective at Blogger. A few months after that I got pregnant, and started another weblog, Mama Duck, to write about things specific to pregnancy, and eventually parenthood.

Over time, the silliness of having two weblogs became apparent. I thought I needed two forums to keep the topics separate. What I learned is that the lines are very blurry, even when I’m not deprived of sleep. The pop culture of Girl Detective seeped over into the motherhood of Mama Duck, and vice versa.

Additionally, I wanted to do more with the sites, but was limited at Blogger. What they have is fabulous, and even more fabulous for being free, but I needed a form that was more flexible. And thus the need for the new digs.

Thanks for visiting, and I hope I’ll give you reason to come back again. The site will be under construction for a while, so pardon the appearance while we work out some bugs in the system.